Anonymous asked: I'm sure you already know all of these ramblings. But just wanted to say that you come across to be one of the most eloquent, intelligent girls I have social media stalked. Don't let your beauty hide behind the heartbreak from others. Believe in yourself, live for yourself. The moment you do, everything will fall into place. You will find that other bit who will watch back to back sitcoms in a den eating pizza till 4am. But most importantly, you will know who you are without them xxx

Thank you for your lovely words. I am very self aware of these things and I think that blogs can be a bit of a hazard because people write more when they are angry/sad about a situation more than when they are content. I fear that I may appear less happy than I am in actuality.

However, I do think too much about what other people think of me and whether or not I am liked and I agree that I hold too much importance on it - not just romantically but socially in general. It is the source of all my anxieties and you are right it’s not necessary a lot of the time and if anything causes me more discomfort and paranoia. I’m sure one day I will live for myself and not by the opinion of others, I’m working on it anyway.

Thank you for being so sweet to me, I will definitely try and implement your advice. I wish you weren’t so anonymous because you appear to be very eloquent yourself and probably have the kind of blog I’d love to follow.